Columbia, MD Divorce Attorney

Skilled Divorce Lawyer Representing Clients in Columbia, MD

Getting divorced is not the end - it is the beginning of a new life, free from an unhappy or untenable marriage. Things will change after your divorce, but these changes can be very positive if you are coming out of a miserable marriage. If your marriage has become more of a burden than a joy or an asset, ending it is likely to make you a happier, healthier person - and a calmer, less stressed parent. You will have greater freedom to enjoy the lifestyle you want and meet new people, and you will also be free to choose the parenting style you think is right, regardless of what your spouse thinks.

When you are going through a divorce, it is essential to have good legal representation. Diamant Gerstein, LLC is committed to providing personalized representation. Our attorneys answer phone calls personally to make us more accessible to our clients. You will never have to wait for a receptionist to get a message to your attorney. We can be reached 24/7 if you have an urgent concern. With us, you will know that you are getting a truly hands-on attorney to advocate for you during this difficult process.

Contested or Uncontested - Understanding Your Divorce Options

Most people resolve their divorces out of court, usually with the help of a mediator or sometimes, just their respective attorneys. If you and your spouse are ultimately able to agree on each issue in your divorce, from asset division to child custody, you can file an uncontested divorce. Uncontested divorces have quite a few advantages, most notably, that they cost less and are faster. However, the downside is that you will need to cooperate with your spouse to some degree.

If you have a contentious relationship, your attorneys can arrange a type of mediation or negotiation that does not involve any direct contact between you and your spouse. This often succeeds, as it reduces personal conflict and allows both parties to focus on the issue at hand.

We do not recommend uncontested divorce to every single client, however. Attempting an out-of-court resolution might not be in your best interest if your spouse is a narcissist and will likely the negotiation process to manipulate or hurt you. Narcissists often refuse to compromise, forcing their divorces to go to trial no matter what. Additionally, if your marriage involved domestic violence, it is often far safer to go to court. Your spouse is less likely to use threats if a judge is making all the decisions.

Contested divorce may also be a good option in high-asset marriages. The amount of money at stake may be far more than the costs associated with divorce litigation, especially if are likely entitled to alimony your spouse will not agree to pay. Hidden assets are a common problem in high-asset divorce, and these undisclosed assets are often found during the litigation process.

You may also need to go through divorce litigation if you have a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement that is drastically unfair to you or that you were coerced into signing. Courts can refuse to enforce these contracts if their terms would leave one party unable to meet their basic needs, or if one party was coerced into signing it without being given a meaningful opportunity to negotiate. Our attorneys can review your case to determine whether you might be able to have your prenuptial or postnuptial agreement dismissed.

Contact an Experienced Columbia, MD Divorce Attorney

Diamant Gerstein, LLC can help you find the right solution to divorce resolution. Our dedicated Columbia, MD divorce lawyers will assess your situation to help you decide whether to pursue an uncontested divorce or to proceed with litigation. Contact us at 301-560-2685 for a confidential consultation.